As I am on Tinder and Plenty of Fish I am finding a variety of very odd individuals. It makes me wonder if they are just on there to be stupid or if they are sincerely seeking someone to date. If they are approaching it in a manner of being serious to date someone, wouldn't one think they should put actual thought into their photos? Instead I am finding some of the most ridiculous photos posted on these mens profiles. Let me share with you what I have been finding.
I'm not quite sure if he is trying to show that he has a playful side or not. I cannot quite tell what is happening here in this photo or what message is being conveyed. I'm definitely not quite sure what to make of the pink swim shorts.
Is this person trying to make this face or did he have a stroke? I don't see how that would be appealing to anyone. This is definitely someone who may need to work on a few things before seeking someone to date.
Wth? Yes, this is a man dressed as a woman seeking a woman. I have no words.
Over the various profiles I have visited I have noticed Santa does show up from time to time. I am not sure if this is to display a side of childlike behavior or just someone on the crazy side. Either way, "swipe right" for me!
I cannot quite tell if this is a man showing a fun side of him while at work or a photo from a tv audition gone wrong.
Should I be impressed you can shake hands with inanimate objects?
I'm not sure what message is being displayed besides you take pride in your body. Is that all you can offer? Sure, you work out, so do I, what is your point?
Ummmm...no words.
Why are you yelling?
What is happening? Why is your photo floating above water?
Ummm...does anyone else see a resemblance of this person's face and the face on the coconut?
A kitten frolicking in the field. What?
Does he have a thing for turkey's? Is he trying to be a turkey? Is this suppose to be irony or displaying a funny, ha, ha side?
I really do want to take this search for someone seriously. I want to find someone who I can develop a relationship with and pursue sharing my life with them. It is discouraging to see all these guys out there who are either simply not a fit or not taking this seriously. Which overall is fine, after all we are all on our own journey. However, it gets discouraging to see these individuals and watch anything as a potential option not be options at all.
It is nice to have a few nice guys to chat with and see if getting to know them will be possible. So far conversation has been basic small talk and I'm curious if any of them will be interested enough to start asking more questions. I feel like I am taking more of a lead than I like with the conversation and when I drop off, so do they. It is fine if they are not interested, but they won't even put in the effort. Which, says enough there, if they cannot put in the effort just for a conversation they probably are not someone for me.
Being patient through this process has been a challenge and has caused me some distraction. I need to get back on track with my goals and never ending task list that needs to get done. This past weekend I went to my storage unit and pulled out a few items along with some boxes and totes to sort. I am hoping if I take things slow and pull just a few things at a time I will be able to get through the items in my storage unit. My roommate has suggested I can store things in her garage once we get her garage cleared out. I would be grateful and appreciate that to become a reality as it sucks to have to pay for storage every single month. Unfortunately, I was not fully finished with a smaller project in my room and now with the new project of the totes, boxes to sort and a few photos to hang I have overwhelmed myself. I think the men I have been chatting with online has served as a nice distraction. However, I think I need to sit back a bit, even if I don't want to and get present tasks at hand accomplished.
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