Monday, July 27, 2015

LaCresha's Lens Focuses On...page 206...Starting Over

Well, I have not heard from Chad/Ricky and I don't believe I will ever hear from him again.  I had several people who wanted to help me prove that he was who he said he was, but each person discovered he lied.  Just like I had suspected and all the information had lead to me believing, none of it sadly was even true.
So, here I am on Plenty of Fish and Tinder.  I'm not so much a fan of the Tinder app, but I guess this is a part of the 'new age of dating'.  Woot.  Woot.  Plenty of Fish has brought on conversations with different individuals.  One gentleman who has caught my attention looks like a cutie.  I keep hoping I will hear from him, and maybe if I can be patient enough he might message me first.  But, I have only been on that site for three or four days so I'm probably being more anxious than necessary.  There is something about this particular person that interests me, and I just want him to like me too.  Or at least want to get to know me.

This entire process is tough, and it sucks.  It should not be this hard, and yet for some reason I'm not where I want to be in the relationship and romance department.  I just wonder when it will happen, where I can find that person who will be that someone to pursue a long term relationship with and see where it can go.  I want to share my life with someone.  I want to be that important person in someone's life who they come home to at the end of their work day.  Someone who is proud of being with me.  Blah, blah, blah...

My friend Theresa thinks I should do a series on this process of the men I am finding online.  Some are very interesting, some are divorced and some just have a job that doesn't make it very conducive to meeting people.  She even found a name for the series based on how my enjoyment of dogs have been ruined by the dogs in the office where I worked for over a year (& now back in a different role).
She thinks I should call it, "Must Hate Stinky Dogs".  Mainly because I commented on how many pictures were posted with men and their dogs, or men and puppies.  It was getting weird to see all these photos.
Who knows what people think of my photos and profile...maybe this will help me break free from this slump I've been in and get me on track to where I want to be.  With a good, handsome, honest (employed) kind man.

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