While I am seeking to find someone to share my life, a very dear friend is going through the beginning stages of accepting she will be divorcing her husband. While she has been trying for many years to make this marriage work, it has been one sided for quite some time. This has been hard on my friend and it makes me sad for her. It also concerns me that the level of importance to find that "right person" to share my life with how they need to be the right person.
How do you find that "right" person? I'm realizing I may be dealing with a liar. After so many months of believing someone, now there is this doubt.
What does one look for and how do you know if someone is telling the truth? It is quite frustrating watching all these others as couples and watching people who have broken up end up and find someone else again so quickly.
What is there for me to learn here? I don't understand. Part of me is worried I won't be able to find the "right" one and end up settling for the wrong one and being unhappy. Where I would rather be single than with the wrong person, how long until I give up on that and settle for someone who isn't "right"?
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