I have come to the conclusion that a woman's mind is a lot like a chicken.
Leave it up to its own devises, her mind will get restless. Then it will get busy and creative and always end up in trouble.
That is what has recently happened to me. I have not heard from this guy I am interested in for over two weeks. I was starting to think he forgot about me, maybe found someone else...my mind was quite busy trying to find ways to sabotage the situation. Finally, my curiosity, like a cat got the best of me and I found myself on Facebook. Now, he has told me that he does not have a Facebook page and while that could be possible, my mind had talked myself into "who doesn't have a Facebook page"??? Even though I know many people who do not. I found who I thought was someone who could be related to him, so I went onward to my search assuming it was possibly a relative. Then I found who I thought was him and I was sad, why would he start a Facebook page and not tell me? I sent a friend request and let it go and went to church. In church the more I thought about it I realized I needed to delete the request. After church I went to do just that, but again talked myself out of it. If he 'likes' me, why wouldn't he want to "Like" me on Facebook?
Well...I woke up this morning around 5 am bummed I still had not heard from him. Now I was beginning to wonder if he got into a wreck. Our relationship is completely based online and I am sensing some red flags, I feel he doesn't want to fully let me in (again the female mind at work). I am working on a little project for him for me to give to him when we finally meet. A little pillow, I thought he could keep in his truck. While I am working away and messaging a friend my phone buzzes, it was him, "heard you found one of my brothers on Facebook"
"uh-oh"...so I was honest with him and explained how I thought it was him, he explained it was not. He had been in Canada when he got a call from his brother wondering if he knew who I was and that I had tried to friend him on Facebook. I sent him a screenshot of what I found and when he said he was not on Facebook I believed him and deleted the request. Turns out he has been in Canada for the past two weeks. He never told me he was going to leave the country for work. That makes me a little sad, I keep hoping he gets assigned a load and comes to Nashville. I would really like to meet this guy. Not hearing from him got my female mind at work and I found myself in a 'busted' situation of cyber stalking. Of course talking to any of my friends, we have all admitted to cyber stalking. It is an easy way to find out about someone.
All seems to have been forgiven, and we have moved forward. I am hoping things will progress to where I can finally meet him and spend some time with him in person instead of via the interwebs of the world.
Lesson learned...when your mind starts to get restless...stay off Facebook.
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